What is inclusive language?
Inclusive language is the practice of avoiding the spoken or written use of any words or expressions that results in exclusion to groups of people.
Specifically, LGBTQIA+ inclusive language is a way to acknowledge and respect the diversity of bodies, genders and relationships. People express gender and sexuality in different ways.
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Why is this important?
Inclusive language is important in collaborative environments because it can:
Limit exclusive behavior and treatment Reduces binary assumptions Strengthen employee performance, morale Increased business success List of Inclusive words and phrases
Source: University of Maryland’s What is the correct acronym?
Short: They all are!
Long: The LGBT or LGBTQ or LGBTQIA+ or LGBTQ2+ or “LGBTQ2 Plus” full acronym stands for
T = Transgender or Trans-identified + = an inclusive representation of all the other identities ex. Non-Binary, Pansexual, Asexual and Intersex LGBTQQIP2SAA full acronym stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, queer, intersex, pansexual, two-spirit (2S), androgynous and asexual
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What if I used the incorrect term?
Take a deep breath. This part is difficult. Admitting that we are wrong or unsure is to be vulnerable. First, apologize for the mistake. Correct your mistake by using the correct term or pronoun. If you realize the mistake after, apologize in private.
It is okay to ask the person their pronoun(s), but it’s not okay to ask what that person thinks that all those in their group wish to be called. A single person does not represent the entirety of any group. It is not their job to teach you, but it is your responsibility to learn and grow through empathy and listening. This issue takes a lot of dimensions and depth within the LGBTQIA++ community, and is likely very personal, so treat everyone with care.
Intent is not the same as impact.